No matter how much you want your lover or spouse to be by your side, more desire and attachment will only make that person even more tired and tired of seeing you or be with you. If your lover or spouse sees someone other than you, don't stop seeing others. Remember, striving to win back the one you love almost guarantees your failure. Do not restrict your lover or your spouse. Humans tend to resist things or people who control or restrict them. If you want to change the mind of your spouse or lover regarding anything, you must not say "But I love you. I can tell you, telling them that and emphasizing how much you love them is not going to make them change their mind. He/She is not going to change his/her mind just because you tell them I love you If you want your partner to do certain things your way, you must not say to your partner but I have done this and this for you Avoid bringing up the past about what you have done for him or her. YES, you can get your true love back. Even if the love lost is far from you. There are no instant solutions, but a consistent approach to rebuilding confidence and passion can be enough to win your Love back. When things go wrong and your relationship falls apart, you feel like you have regained your love. You remember dates and having fun with your lover, then meeting a honeymoon or living under the roof. Suddenly, the problems happened and a lot of frustration ensued, and before you know it, your relationship is over. However, it may not be the desired outcome, but if you want to restore your relationship, you can get help. You may be in a state of despair or even depression now because you have recently separated from your lover or spouse. Things can look bad now. But the good news is that you can recover the old one. You just need to get it right. If your goal is to regain lost love, read on. First, realize that what are reasons why he broke up with you. Think about them for a while. Were you unfaithful? Did your ex just get bored, or were you complacent with each other, taking each other for guaranteed? Maybe you're constantly fighting? All of these problems can be solved and corrected. Some are bigger than others, of course. If you cheated, it can be a long and slow process to restore trust between you. To get lost love, you will have to prove over some time, that you can trust that you will not cheat again. If that's the problem, think why did I cheat my partner? Was it because I didn't feel 100% committed to the relationship? Perhaps subconsciously, I didn't want it to continue. Maybe I didn't care, one way or the other. Before trying to resolve this with your ex, you must work with yourself. Take time to reflect and explore your feelings. If you decide to save your ex-girlfriend and stick to it, you're ready to move on. Ask for the loss and sincerely promise it will not happen again. However, do not expect him to immediately fulfill his mission of rescuing his lost love. It takes time to heal deep pain and restore confidence. So do not be impatient or think that it can be solved in a day or two. If you were married, your goal is to get your comrade back. No doubt you have the same problems and difficulties, and if you have significant children, you need to multiply. Still, you must proceed with care and consideration. Be humble and contrite. Don't try to win arguments or gain ground with your ex. You want to win it back, not just to earn points. A good place to start is to be your ex's best friend. Remember how things were when your love was new? Try to recapture that magical and emotional moment when you looked deeply into each other's eyes and felt that you were looking into their soul. Face it, you were more attentive to her, more attuned to her moods and feelings at that time. How to recapture this? Start by watching it closely. Listen carefully to what she says, and especially how she says it. Here's another suggestion. You convinced her to have coffee, just to talk. Have a coffee to go, rent a rowing boat and paddle to a small lake. Park the boat in the middle. Now enjoy the scenery, the coffee and each other. Or walk to the top of a hill and have a picnic. Go to an amusement park, take a few rides, then sit down and chat. If the problem has been a constant battle, it can be resolved. First of all, you need to engage and find viable and permanent solutions to all problems, so you don't have to discuss it anymore. For example, you may want to drink beer with friends a few times a week. But the wife hates and resents her and wants to be with her.