Right age to be in relationship?

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Right age to be in relationship?

So I think every child has boyfriend and girlfriend , Yes?  When you are three , four , five years of age, didn’t you have boyfriends and girlfriends? You had , Now you’re giving it a new meaning to this simple friend well, A friend need not necessarily mean you have to get physical with them , this is something that you have picked up from certain societies where body is everything.

See why is it so that today it has become like this? This was only in United States but today it’s everywhere if you say a relationship, people think it’s a body based relationship  well , don’t I have a relationship with you right now? Don’t you have relationship with your parents, your friends  your teachers?

But you cannot say it.. If you say I have a relationship with my teacher , they will think oh you have doing some hanky – panky with your teacher why have you become like this? See the problem is just this, your intelligence has been hijacked by your hormones , If I say “you are my friend” that means I must mess with your body is that a necessity?

Okay you are a girl, if you are my friend bit I can’t day you are my girlfriend, because it will be understood in a different way , why this is happened is , we are giving too much significance to body based relationship , you must understand there are relationships deeper than body, you can hold such profound relationships without your body being involved in it. Isn’t it?

Possible or No? well body based relationship may be necessary with somebody that is fine. That’s your choice but that is only possible in a limited way, but friendship and relationship are possible at various levels with enormous number of people , Possible or no? You can intimate relationship with thousand of people, I have very intimate relationship.

But if I have used the word ‘intimacy’ people think two bodies should be rubbing ,See if two body is rubbing only skin is touching, all right? Skin is the outermost cover of who you are, how can that be intimate ? I don’t consider that intimate, I can penetrate people not just their minds and their emotion, their innards their very life process,

I hold that kind off relationships with people, where my life energies reverberates with their life energy that is intimate, that’s really intimate, body rubbing , okay it’s maybe a necessity at a certain stage of one’s life, it’s okay we are not trying to make it right or wrong it’s one choice but don’t make that the basis of friendship.

Why can’t you be friend with every girl and every boy around you? So essentially you’re asking at what age should I go into sexually-oriented relationship? But I think it will be .. you will be doing a great service to yourself and to the world. If you remove this boyfriend girlfriend business and call it something else.

Call them your what .. romance or your love affair or whatever  because friend the word friend must be released from body it’s very important , Otherwise friendships won’t happen everybody will be like this because if I say she is my friend , she will afraid , unnecessarily , isn’t it? She will fear “ What is he up to”?

Released the word “ friend from the body, it’s very important, Let friendship happen all over , well body based relationships happen with another individual , that’s different  that’s your choice , At what age? See when you are in education, if you don’t take charge of these instruments at this stage in your life, believe me.

Your own body , your own mind will trip you in so many ways right through your life , You won’t ride them , they will ride you , that should not happen , At this stage in your life , let the focus fundamentally be on how to grow yourself to the best possible place within yourself , Don’t be in a hurry to live , living will happen little later

If you live too early , you will not live too well , don’t try to live too early ,I am not a moralistic person to tell you “ do this , don’t do this” If somebody have such a compulsive need , they can do it  but everybody needs not make it a trend that  if you are in college, you must have a sexually oriented relationship with somebody

There is no compulsion like that , there is no such rule that it must be so , one can grow , Among the mango farmers, there is practice , if you plant a mango sapling , within twelve- fourteen month flowering will happen when the season comes , a mango farmer meticulously removes every flower from the plant

Because if you let it go, it will bear fruit, one or two fruit will come out of this little plant , only those which are not allowed to fruit up to three to four years will become full blown trees and bear lot of fruit , Those plants which bear fruit too early , will never become full- fledged trees , So mango farmer has this wisdom.

He keeps on nipping of every flower  Similarly , human being should not be in rush to live , the important thing is before you try to live you are in place high enough so that life will roll out well for you, You live too early , then it could become an uphill task all your life and tomorrow. Many turmoils   are happening

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